Ready for our first date?

Contact me:

I can’t wait to meet you. ♡ Email is the only way to initially reach me. My availability can be found under “When are you available?” on my details page.

To schedule our first date, please send an email to allie-belle@proton.me with:

  1. a little info about you (but the more the better!),

  2. your desired meeting date, time, duration, location, out vs. incall

  3. screening info (you are welcome to send this after we exchange emails)

  4. unnecessary but will make me smile: please title your email with your favorite film.

♥︎ As an extremely low volume friend, I am intentional about who I spend my time with. To value your time as well, I only accept date invitations when I can foresee some level of compatibility, intrigue, chemistry, interesting convos, etc. Returning friends, longer dates, and interesting & thorough date invitations are always appreciated & prioritized. ♥︎

Screening:

Please see below a few methods; additional screening options can be provided at request.

  • Preferred: A selfie holding up ID with visible photo, full name, & DOB (all else can be blurred)

  • Real name & selfie OR a picture of ID with visible name & photo AND

    • proof of employment (LinkedIn profile, company website bio, work badge, send me a message from your work email, etc.) OR

    • social media account with your name & face visible

  • Selfie holding up a paper written with your 1) real name, 2) real number (no VoIPs), 3) the date you’re reaching out, & 4) my name

For first dates, a minimum 10 mins. of a public activity (e.g., a drink or quick chat at your hotel bar, a walk around the block,) are requested. If you’d like to skip this for discretion, happy for us to do so after a more intensive screening process.

A draft email template:

“Hi Allie, I’m [your name] and [info about yourself—hobbies/interests, city haunts, last movie that made you cry—anything! I’d love to read as much as you’re willing to share].

I would like to see you for [X# hrs.] on [day & time] at [location].

  • If for an outcall: I am planning to book [name of hotel].

  • If for an incall: I would like you to handle booking our hotel in [location].

  • & if for a date 3 hours or longer: I am planning for us to start with [dinner/drinks/show/etc.].

I’ve attached [screening info] OR I will send along screening info after we exchange emails.

For our date, [insert preferences, if any, on clothing, makeup, etc.].

If my first specified date doesn’t work, I am also available for a date on [Y dates & times].

Best, [your name]”