the nitty-gritty

To make time for a career, friends, art, and family (including my cat), I remain low volume & thus am very intentional about who I spend my time with. And, dear gentle-caller, I know you’re busy, busy, busy—so to value your time as well, I only accept date invitations when I can foresee some level of compatibility, intrigue, chemistry, interesting convos, etc. Returning friends, longer dates, and interesting & thorough date invitations are always appreciated & prioritized. ♥︎