the nitty-gritty
To make time for a career, friends, art, and family (including my cat), I remain low volume & thus am very intentional about who I spend my time with. And, dear gentle-caller, I know you’re busy, busy, busy—so to value your time as well, I only accept date invitations when I can foresee some level of compatibility, intrigue, chemistry, interesting convos, etc. Returning friends, longer dates, and interesting & thorough date invitations are always appreciated & prioritized. ♥︎
-
I can’t wait to meet you! Email is the only way to initially reach me. My address & a draft template can be found under contact.
-
Yes, it’s non-negotiable for new friends; thank you for your understanding. ♥︎ Please see the contact page for a few methods; additional screening options can be provided at request.
-
I have a hybrid daytime job (much less exciting than my other pursuits but lends itself to some level of flexibility) so am typically available:
Mon. & Fri: 12 pm - 2 pm, 5 pm - 11 pm
Tues.-Thurs.: 5 pm - 11 pm
Sat. & Sun: 11 am - 11 pm
I am rarely able to accommodate same day dates, and I ask that we schedule our time as far in advance as possible so that I can properly & thoughtfully prepare for our date.
-
To make it easier to review in relation to tribute requests, please see the bottom of the considerations page. :-)
-
It depends! Regardless of screening (+ only for FIRST dates), I request we spend a minimum of 10 min. on a quick public activity (e.g., a drink at your hotel bar, a walk around the block, a matcha latte at a nearby cafe). Besides doing so for both of our safety, this helps ease the initial nerves + gives you a second to process who you’re about to see a lot more of… ❤︎
However, if you’d like to skip this for discretion, happy for us to do so after a more intensive screening process.
For dates 3 hours or longer, a social activity is always required. My 3+ hour date consideration rates take into account minimum social activity length requirements.
-
For privacy’s sake, I keep as low a digital footprint as possible. I do not have any social media accounts or online reviews. Please do not post reviews or talk to other providers about our time together.
-
If we’ve had a few dates & you’re interested in something more exclusive & consistent, happy to discuss. ♥︎